Learn How To Meet Girls Today Without Going Crazy

Hey, you’ve read the title, right? I’m not gonna give you a long intro here, just enough to give you a hint of what you should expect. If you’ve read our other articles, you already know how to meet women! Now you just need to surround yourself by them and put yourself in environments where you can talk to hundreds of women per day if needed. So let’s get right to it, this article is about meeting girls, plain and simple. Here’s the meat:

Put yourself into their trajectory

If you’re stuck working in a cubicle during your normal day job, then slowly start exploring more social environments after work. For instance, go to a popular grocery store, take up yoga classes, go to the gym, meet up with friends for drinks in the evening or even coffee during the day. Look for opportunities to be surrounded by people, and seize those opportunities when they occur!

Bars, clubs or any kinds of social places are chick nests, my friend. They hatch there on a regular basis. Heck, you could even hang out in a book store, or a drugstore! Who cares if you’re just the guy who’s been there for half an hour! Know a yoga place in your area? Sign up for anything that you enjoy. You’ll get some interesting new experiences to boot. But remember, whatever you choose to do, do it for yourself first rather than to meet girls. Live your life for yourself, and women will be a bonus rather than the other way around.

Volunteer for social events

Yeah that one’s a no-brainer. I mean, imagine selling beer at your city’s biggest festival. You’ll get nonstop chickage! Your co-workers are likely gonna be young and fun (and may include some hot girls to begin with), and the more you joke around with them, just having a good time, the more social proof you’re going to have in front of customers.

You can volunteer at festivals, parties, music gigs, community events, whatever comes up. Check out newspapers or look for flyers at your local venues, colleges, universities. Ask bar staff about what kinds of events they’ve heard of lately. Once you volunteer, you’ll make friends, they will become your social circle (or add to it) and hey, that’s going to make it easy for you to organize parties to which you can then, you guessed it, invite cute girls. “You like cooking? Hey, me and my friends are throwing a potluck on Sunday, you should come.”

Go to places girls go

Yoga. Libraries. Bookstores. Aerobic places. Clothing and shoe stores. Also, consider what kind of girl you’re into: where would a goth chick go, where would a very educated woman go, where would you meet party girls? What do they do during the daytime?

Talk to them anywhere

Wanna know where to meet girls? Look out your window! They’re out there bumming around in parks, walking the streets or sitting in cafés. Why not just walk up and say “Hi, my name’s …”? I’ll tell you what: nobody will mind if you don’t mind.

Lastly: be awesome

Okay, so now you’ve signed up for the good stuff and they’re buzzing all around you. What next? Right, you’ll need to approach and talk to them. Here’s now NOT to do it:

Scenario: you’re working in a drugstore.
Hot Babe: “Hey, do you know where I can find lipstick?”
You (nervous and shaky): “Oh! Oh uh… yeah…” (insecure laugh) “It’s… uh over there in aisle 3… I-I-I think… at the end.” (sweat breakdown)

Here’s how to do it instead:

Same scenario.
Hot Babe: “Hey, do you know where I can find lipstick?”
You (calm, collected, confident smile): “Hey there! Sure I do. Come on, I’ll take you there.” (start walking) “What’s your favourite lipstick colour?”
Hot Babe: “Red”
You: “Oh that’s cute! Far too few women wear red anymore, but it’s so classic and feminine. I love it.” etc. etc. etc.

Chat, chat, chat! Smile and be friendly! The worst thing that can happen is her going “uh huh”, “I see”, “thanks” and “bye”. What have you lost then? Nothing! Beyond that, there’s everything to gain. So get your balls together and be awesome. Same goes for any other kind of venue or job. Selling hot dogs? Tease your customers, joke around.

Most importantly, amuse yourself. You’re there to have fun! Take the 20 bucks they hand you and say “thanks! I’ll keep the change.” Wait for their reaction, then hand them the change and keep their food. Do whatever! Just don’t be the braindead zombie that goes (insert monotonous grunt) “that’ll be four fifty please – thanks – bye”.

So there we go, that’s how to meet girls in a few simple steps. With a little effort, you’ll be meeting woman all day long. Of course, you may want to read our article “how to talk to girls” next to get some pointers about sticking around – or just go out there and make it happen right now. What time is it? Time to hit that bar around the corner and make friends with the staff.