How To Build a Social Circle That Allows You To Meet Women

Everyone loves to make new friends. Friends provide comfort, are there to experience the good times with you and will help you when you need them. Friends also introduce you to their other friends, which include the type of woman you desire. This network effect is one of the key benefits of cultivating a strong social circle. The true masters of networking can build up and manage multiple social circles with thousands of people in them, ensuring that they are never wanting for company. With a little practice, you can master how to build a social circle, allowing you to meet plenty of new women consistently. This skill is invaluable for expanding your network and creating meaningful connections.

A Social Circle From Scratch

You need to start building your social circle somewhere, and the best (and only) way you can do that is to go out and meet people. Your very first contact can be found in various ways – through existing friends, through co-workers, or even by going out and talking to someone on the street! The key is to be open to new opportunities and willing to engage with people in different settings! The main idea though is to transform this contact into a friend by getting to know them and connecting with them. You may ask, “how can I connect with them?” It may seem daunting, especially if you have no experience meeting people on a regular basis, but turning a stranger into a friend is much easier than you may expect. The simple fact that you’re not trying to attract them sexually makes this much easier for you. All you need to do is be friendly and show interest in your contact. Smile and make small talk with them until you find something they’re passionate about, then allow them to talk about their passion for as long as they want. Everyone’s favourite topic is themselves, and simply by allowing them to talk about themselves and your being interested in them, will immediately raise yourself in their eyes.

Once you’ve established this person as a friend, its time to start expanding. Invite them to events that you’re organizing and tell them to bring their friends along. Sell your event, making it seem as the biggest event of the year, and emphasize how much you’re looking forward to seeing them. This will simultaneously make them feel special, making them more likely to attend, and the more exciting the event sounds, the more likely they are to bring their friends. After all, all everyone wants is to have a good time!

Friends of friends

Once you meet their friends, simply repeat the previous steps over and over again, each time expanding your social circle. As you start to build your social circle, you’ll meet more and more people and before you know it, it will start to be difficult to keep in touch with everyone! Make sure you continue to have a presence in their life though. Send occasional text messages or give them calls to see how they’re doing. Try and meet up with them once in a while and send them invitations to events you’re organizing or attending. The more of a presence you have in someone’s life, the more they will come to accept you as a friend.

The key to having people introduce you to their friends is threefold.

1) Be non-threatening. If you seem overtly aggressive when meeting new people, or try and pursue every single one of your new friend’s female friends, they will stop introducing you to their friends, as they have their own reputation to consider. Yes, it may seem counterproductive, especially since you’re trying to expand your social circle in an effort to meet new women. However, it is still possible to pursue women without being threatening. Simply make all interactions light-hearted and fun and women will forgive you for any social faux pas that you might make.

2) Give value. Host parties and other events, introduce friends to people you believe they would like to meet and make sure they feel valued and are having a good time whenever they’re with you. People want to hang out with others who make them feel important and who show them a good time, and they want to bring friends into a world where they feel they will have a good time as well.

3) Compliment people on how social they are and how they seem to know so many people. If you give a person a reputation to live up to, they will try their utmost to live up to it. A small comment like this will ensure that your friends will continually introduce you to new people, so that they can maintain their image as being a sociable, popular person in your eyes.

Once you’ve built up a large network of friends and acquaintances, you will be surprised at how easy it is to meet new people, both men and women. The further out your network reaches and the more social circles you are integrated with, the more opportunities you will have to meet the people that you want to meet, and before you know it, you will be chased by women who know you through your vast multitude of friends.